Thursday, January 10, 2008

Taare Zameen Par




Yesterday I watched Taare Zameen Par (http://www.taarezameenpar.com/), a new Indian movie Produced and Directed by Aamir Khan, a very famous Indian actor that has been more selective with his movies in the past few years.

This movie is focused on an 8 year old child in India who has Dyslexia. Presently in India, learning disorders are not normally recognized, because most people are unaware that they exist. This movie shows how, in the eyes of the adults, he is acting out and causing trouble; however just cannot express himself to the point that someone will understand him. Thus he is constantly called “stupid” and beaten at school for his outbursts. His parents try to understand him however are unable to and are also overwhelmed by societal pressures. At one point the child’s school teacher suggests that he has a learning disability and the father automatically has a defensive outburst saying “What?! Are you calling my son a RETARD?!” which is a normal reaction for Indians not only in India but also in the US. It is the same with depression. If someone is going through a natural state of depression that can easily be treated, it is seen as something shameful because they are “mentally ill” and family members tend to hide or ignore the fact to save face, which eventually is more harmful for the state of depression.
Through this movie Aamir Khan and this wondrous child actor explained how it really is for a child having a simple learning disorder in a society where it is unaccepted. Not only do they display how is outbursts are related to him not being understood, they ever so creatively, explained visually how learning is difficult for dyslexic kids and how they see things. This movie also reminds you how modern day education, though important, tends to stifle children’s creativity. He also displayed how children in these situations CAN be helped with a little time, dedication, understanding and creativity.

I cannot begin to describe how much I admire Aamir Khan for using his fame to put this movie, these issues in front of a main stream audience. This movie was sold out for weeks. I had written about this same issue in my graduate school applications. Ignorance is the worst type of problem, and our generation has so much power eliminate the ignorance by using media. Unfortunately our society has gotten wrapped up in fashion, fame and appearances, that most of society’s icons are poor role models for children and impressionable teenagers. While our most revered stars sing about “bling”, “booty”, and “I’m a slave”, Aamir Khan has used his celebrity to make a difference in society.

Finally, the film was so incredibly well done! The music was powerful, the cinematograph unique and the story line was solid. They did not over do any of the emotions as Bollywood tends to do, and all the facts about learning disorders were correct. Overall I was overwhelmingly impressed and wanted to share my feelings with you all. If you get the opportunity to see it, please do. Those of you who don’t speak Hindi, all Indian movies at home play Indian movies with subtitles. If you need help looking up locations of the movies please contact me and I will help, but I highly suggest this movie to everyone.

Wednesday, January 9, 2008

TRAVEL TIME!



Sorry for the delay in blog updates. As a lot of you know I have been on the ultimate traveling mission. I am finally home and am back in the swing of things.

New Years was spent in Goa, India’s most famous and touristy beach area, which was amazing! A few of the AIF fellows and a few of my Hyderabad friends made the four days in Goa perfect. I had forgotten how much I loved the beach…so instead of being the normal tourist freak that I am, we spent every single day in the water and lying in the sun, something I realize I desperately needed. Each night was filled with parties in extremely packed clubs and parties located right on the beach. New Years Eve was spent in a fantastic club with marvelous décor and a brilliant view of the beach. Goa, overall was a fantastic time.
Pictures from Goa:
http://uci.facebook.com/album.php?aid=2197911&l=19acc&id=6011342

I also got to do some sight seeing in Bombay with some other AIF fellow, first, however, I was picked up and taken out for a wonderful evening with a friend who lives in there. Bombay was everything I imagined, and I am sure you all can believe how excited my friend Sumit and I were at the sound of random Bollywood music playing in the middle of the street. Unfortunately Shahid Kapoor, my new Indian actor love, did not pop out from around a corner and start serenading me with a beautiful Indian song and his dancing, which I obviously hoped would happen, but besides that small disappointment, Bombay was such a vibrant city to visit! I really understand why so many people have fallen in love with Bombay.

After my AIF training a few of the other fellows and I got to go to Jaipur, Rajasthan to see another fellow get married. We were so lucky to be able to attend the wedding as it was at a beautiful castle with all the special traditional trimmings. Her husband even came in on an elephant to meet her! I love Indian weddings!!

Finally most of you know I was supposed to travel with my parents and brother to Pakistan to visit where my dad was born and raised. Unfortunately there was a slight problem with my visa and if I left India to go to Pakistan I might not have been allowed back into India. Though all that paper work is sorted out now, I am disappointed I was not able to join my family. My brother was able to see a lot of my dad’s childhood which is something I so desire to see. As my wonderful roommate has reminded me, everything works out for a reason.
Pictures from Bombay and Jaipur:

During my family’s trip to Pakistan Benazir Bhutto was assassinated. They were traveling in a car in the old city of Lahore (Northern Pakistan) when all the city’s lights went out and people started to run in fear of riots. My parent’s driver was also scared and started backing up the car into auto rickshaws until they were able to pull into an alley and hide out for a while. That night the whole city turned off and lights were only on through generators. The next day my family drove over the border of Pakistan into India’s Amritsar. They were advised not to, however took the risk and thankfully arrived safely. Thank you all for all your concerned emails and phone calls.